The article discusses the concept of intergenerational trauma, illustrating how the emotional scars of parents can affect their children's behavior and mental health. It emphasizes that trauma can be transmitted even when the original traumatic events are not repeated, leading to issues such as mood disorders and disrupted attachments in the next generation. Through the story of My-Linh Le, who recognized her own rage mirrored her parents' reactions, the article highlights the importance of acknowledging and processing trauma. It also examines how families handle trauma differently, with silence or constant discussion both potentially causing harm. Understanding these dynamics can empower parents to make conscious choices and break the cycle of trauma, fostering healthier emotional environments for their children.