'Shrekking' refers to the trend of intentionally dating someone perceived as inferior to gain an upper hand in the relationship. This practice is based on the belief that the other person will be grateful and thus more accommodating. However, it can lead to unexpected outcomes, such as the 'superior' partner being treated poorly or even dumped, a phenomenon termed 'getting Shrekked.' The concept relies on assumptions about a universally accepted dating hierarchy, which may not exist. People often misjudge their desirability, leading to mismatched expectations. Additionally, the dynamics of relationships can change over time, making the initial power differential unstable. Ultimately, successful relationships depend on compatibility and mutual respect rather than power plays.